The 2024 Missions Retreat in Dallas, Texas
This week, I had the privilege of going to the Montserrat Jesuit Retreat House in Dallas, Texas for a retreat on missions put on by Bp. Stephen Scarlett of the Diocese of the Holy Trinity in the Anglican Catholic Church. The week was marked by Morning and Evening Prayer and daily Eucharist. We had four main sessions at which Bp. Scarlett presented thoughts on how we do missions at the parish level and then we broke off into small groups to discuss various thought questions to further explore what he had taught us. The four sessions centered around praying for mission, forming the remnant, the ministry framework of spiritual direction, and hospitality as the central mode of mission.
The first talk the Bishop gave was about the importance of praying for mission. We cannot be effective at carrying out the Church’s mission at the parish level if we avoid prayer. Our rhythm should be to pray and wait for God to send us into a new ministry. Prayer cannot be seen as occasional or seasonal, but must be who we are. At Bp. Scarlett’s flourishing parish, St. Matthew’s in Newport Beach, CA, the Bishop requests that people set aside a day of the week to fast from something and pray for missions using a Litany for Mission. What exactly are we praying for when we pray for missions? It’s not really praying for a parish to grow numerically or even to preserve things like the church building. Rather, we should ask God:
To open new doors and opportunities for mission and ministry. We want God to lead us to do things that we’re not doing now so that we can reach people we’re not currently reaching.
To convert hearts to faith in Jesus Christ. We want people who do not currently believe in God to come to faith in him.
To grow those in our parish spiritually because conversion is an ongoing process. What begins at baptism must continue as people are recreated in Christ.
To stir up the gifts of the Holy Spirit in our parish for the edification of the Body.
To send new gifts in areas of need. A lot of times when our churches lack, we complain, but we should pray instead!
When we come to God in prayer, asking for his will to be done, we must ask what God is calling us to do and what vision for mission he’s giving us. The Bishop encouraged us to never stop praying for mission, but that we should do it frequently, persistently, and audibly.
One of the major themes of the retreat was “remnant.” This is a term that goes back to Scripture to describe a small group of faithful people. In the Old Testament, it referred to the faithful in Israel who continued to worship God despite the national apostasy committed by the majority of people. Anglican theologian Martin Thornton applied this concept to parish life: A parish is itself a remnant of faithful people who live out lives of faithfulness in their community; but, even more, within the parish, there are faithful people who are dedicated to the Threefold Rule of weekly Eucharist, praying the Daily Offices of Morning and Evening Prayer, and cultivating a robust private prayer life by receiving spiritual direction. From a ministry perspective, this entails a reorientation where the priest pours into the spiritual formation of the most committed people rather than scrambling about trying to bring more people into the pews. The goal is not to grow in breadth, but in depth by using long-term formation that teaches people how to pray and love rather than short-term growth centered around marketing and advertising. The “consumerist” approach to mission that seeks to attract people through gimmicks is dying (if it’s not dead already) because when people attend those churches, they don’t experience anything different there. If we want to have a mission, we have to be willing to do something different. The “something different’ is the full ascetical life of the Anglican Church characterized by weekly participation in the Eucharist, Daily Office, and the reception of spiritual direction. This is what many people who are searching are hungry for.
From there, Bishop Scarlett thoroughly explained what how spiritual direction should become the framework for ministry. There are many unspoken assumptions about ministry in our culture: it’s assumed that priests are there to help people by providing encouragement and support and to “grow” the parish. Minsitry is deemed “useful” if people becoem “happier.” Of course, parish “growth” is great so long as we stick to the organic metaphor, but too often we frame this in business terms of growing numerically and financially, rather than spiritually. The kind of growth our Lord teaches us to pursue is qualitative far more than quantitative; or, perhaps we could say that quantitative growth should spring from qualitative growth. We want to see the Body of Christ edified and the best way for a priest to do this is through a ministry framework that prioritizes spiritual direction. Spiritual direction refocuses our attention from finding “happiness” in the world by asking us to consider how life in the world is helping us grow spiritually. How is God teaching us to be patient when we’re unemployed and searching for a job? How is he teaching me to love that person that just doesn’t seem lovable? The real call for a Christian is to change themselves rather than all the things wrong with the world. Too many people are stuck in the story of the world: life begins at birth and ends at death and faith comes in to help us achieve a consolation prize called “heaven.” But the story of faith is radically different; life begins at baptism and it has the goal of the resurrection of the body and the life of the world to come. The overriding question is how we’re being changed into the image of Christ. This is where spiritual direction comes in. It is effectively coaching people in their lives of prayer so that they grow more like God by helping them take responsibility for their own lives rather than blaming other people or circumstances. Too often, people come and see their priest only when they’re in “crisis mode” while things are falling apart. But the goal of spiritual direction is to meet regularly, whether in crisis or not, in order to progress in spiritual formation. As a person changes, they see what Christ is doing in their lives and want to share that with others. So we can conclude that the best way to impact the world for Christ is to be a part of the remnant for Christ to bear witness to Christ in the world.
The final session led by Bishop Scarlett was about hospitality. For us to understand how hospitality perpetuates mission, we must understand how biblical hospitality is different from ordinary hospitality. Ordinary hospitality is when you serve your friends: maybe you invite them over for dinner and cook for them. Biblical hospitality is when we serve those who are not our friends and invite those who are different from us into our lives. Of course, we should practice both, but we must understand that biblical hospitality happens when we receive others the way Christ received us. We welcome them because Christ welcomed us even while we were yet sinners and he continues to welcome us even when we do the things we’re not supposed to do. Biblical hospitality doesn’t preclude accountability and correction in love, but it does prioritize getting to know people before correcting or judging them. By getting to know them, we move into friendship with them by taking a real interest in them as people, not as potential converts. This is why it’s important for us to engage visitors in our parish, not necessarily with a list of reasons about why our church is the best, but with real interest in their story and who they are.
This retreat was a refreshing time. It’s always wonderful to be with other Anglicans to pray the Offices and celebrate the Eucharist. It was also an incredibly valuable time of hearing about the significance of mission and the things we can be doing to perpetuate it. At St. Paul’s, our mission is blazoned on the cover of the bulletin: “To provide a haven where together we know Christ more fully, serve Him more faithfully, and make him better known to others.” We should all be praying that our parish might accomplish this through robust lives of prayer, spiritual direction, and biblical hospitality.
O God, who hast made of one blood all nations of men for to dwell on the face of the whole earth, and didst send thy blessed Son to preach peace to them that are far off and to them that are nigh; Grant that all men everywhere may seek after thee and find thee. Bring the nations into thy fold, pour out thy Spirit upon all flesh, and hasten thy kingdom; through the same thy Son Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
Almighty God, whose compassions fail not, and whose loving-kindness reacheth unto the world’s end; We give thee humble thanks for opening heathen lands to the light of thy truth; for making paths in the deep waters and highways in the desert; and for planting thy Church in all the earth. Grant, we beseech thee, unto us thy servants, that with lively faith we may labour abundantly to make known to all men thy blessed gift of eternal life; through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. (BCP 38)